My Journey of Writing Books

 

Many, if not most, of us have a book in our heads that we would like to write, based on our professional or personal experiences. The challenge is not usually having something to say. It is knowing how to begin.

One of my friends, upon retiring from the government, wrote a book about his 30-year tenure. He filled the book, Good Enough for Government Work, with an inside look at the amusing and crazy anecdotes from his experience. Another friend is writing a book about his family history. In his book, he serves as the narrator and protagonist, sharing his journey of uncovering the trials in his family's history and how their perseverance has enabled him to overcome his own personal challenges.

The books I have written are different. Rather than personal stories, they focus on practical guidance for association professionals on effective membership marketing practices. My latest book, Membership Marketing from A to Z, is now available on Amazon.

The stages of the writing process I followed may be helpful to you as you pursue a writing goal.

Perhaps the most important aspect of writing for me is cultivating a learning mindset. Over the years, I have gained many insights from reading a shelf full of books by authors ranging from marketing experts like Philip Kotler to membership consultants like Sarah Sladek. The print versions of my books are filled with notes and underlines. When I read books electronically, I save my highlights for future use. As one author observed, “Reading a book is among the most high-leverage activities on earth—you can gain access to what smart people have already figured out.”

Many insights have come from attending professional events to learn from presenters. A wealth of insights has come from observing the marketing innovations and test results my clients and colleagues have implemented.

The next step in the process is to capture what I have learned. For me, the best way to track my insights is to write about them whenever I learn something new. Often, that takes the form of a blog post or a short article. For example, I have been writing and recording lessons on this blog since 2007, and much of that material has found its way into my books.

To support the findings in my books, I have relied on quantitative data. For me, this has been 17 years of association research documented in the annual Membership Marketing Benchmarking Report. This data elevates my recommendations from opinion and stories to statistically valid correlations and outcomes, drawn from thousands of associations over the years. Whatever your topic, evidence strengthens your writing. For you, that may mean identifying research studies and surveys. For others, it may mean interviews, historical documents, family letters, or personal journals.

With all this content, the next step is to craft a compelling thesis and outline for the book. For one of my books, The Seven Deadly Sins of Membership Marketing, the title and framework came together while I was developing a presentation for an ASAE conference. The presentation was well-received, and I later expanded it into a book. For my book, Membership Marketing from A to Z, I had the inspiration and outlined it in a blog post in August 2012 (not a typo), and I finally started writing it this past year.

Of course, inspiration and outlines only get you so far. Eventually, the real work begins: writing, editing, and production. It takes time and focus. For my first book, Membership Recruitment, I took a sabbatical from work and spent each morning writing and rewriting. For that book, I had the advantage of my wife, a linguist, serving as my capable editor. For all my books, my professional proofreaders, designers, and production colleagues at MGI helped get them to market. I have found technology increasingly helpful. Grammarly catches typos and grammar issues. More recently, I have used ChatGPT to challenge my assumptions with prompts like, ‘What would a critical reviewer see as weaknesses in this chapter?”

Publishing your book involves an additional step. I have been very satisfied with printing and distributing my books through Amazon’s Kindle Direct Publishing. Other authors I know have used subsidy publishers for a fee to help with their books. Of course, you can also submit your book to a traditional publisher to leverage their prestige, production, and distribution services.

Writing a book can feel overwhelming, but viewing it as a process helps. More often, it unfolds over years of learning, gathering ideas, and organizing what you have discovered into something worth sharing. If you have been thinking, “Someday, I should write that book,” my encouragement is simple: start. Capture your ideas, outline your thoughts, and begin developing blog posts, articles, and presentations. You may find that what feels ordinary to you could be exactly the wisdom someone else needs.